Start with looking at who and what you want to be. When you think about who and what you want to be, who is around you who helps you be that? What are you doing that helps you move into being your best self? We each need to take responsibility for being who and what we want to be and are meant to be. It helps to be with others who have similar goals and to consciously spend less time with those who don’t bring out the best in us. Who we choose to bring into our personal lives will affect who we are. We pick up things from the energy around us. Keep bringing your focus to what is important to you.