When someone is trying to focus your attention on them or away from something else, open your scope of focus and see what they are trying to deflect you from.  Step back and breathe.  Then, tune into where your focus needs to be.  The look here mentality will often be about trying to stop you from seeing what is happening that is actually the more important focus.  Currently, you are being inundated with a lot of noise and it keeps you from being grounded and focused on where your energy needs to be.  Move back to where your focus and energy needs to be.

The Light Giver