Your focus, intention and attention are your power. It is where you create and manifest. Focusing on the agendas of others will not help you. Allowing others to decide where your focus needs to be will not help you create your life. Bring everything to an energy level. All is energy. Does your energy expand or contract with certain thoughts and focus? How does it feel? Relearn your gifts and abilities by paying attention to the energy. Reset to your intuitive natures. You need to move beyond what society is creating. Create what is authentic to you and your energy. That will lead you down your own path.