To create change, you must first believe that change is possible. You must also believe that what you desire is possible to create. Then, look at what you have and how it serves you. Once you understand that, you can start shifting the energy to the desired creation. You must learn to be aware of what you say and how you say it. Those are invocations and tell the Universe what you desire. If you are clear and focused, you can form the energy of what you desire. Use this to work on yourself and do not to try to change another or the path of another. The people who belong with you will show up in a clean creation and those who no longer belong with you will move on to where they need to be. You don’t have the right to try and alter another person’s free will. It is better to help someone learn to consciously create for themselves.